Feeling horny this Valentine’s Day? I have just the thing, 50% off selected Valentine clips and ones with me wearing red or pink in my Manyvids store! Enjoy! It ends Sunday, February 20. Just use the dropdown menu to select “on sale”!
New Free Onlyfans!
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Now my regular Onlyfans that has a monthly fee will contain both my vanilla and femdom content, with regular updates. My paid Onlyfans is going to be half off for the first 20 subscribers this week also! Hope to see you on the flip side. I’d love to hear what you hope to find in my Onlyfans pages.
Big Black Friday and Cyber Monday Sales!
Hey guys! Do you enjoy taking advantage of sales this time of year? I know I do, and I ordered some new fetishwear you can enjoy seeing me in soon! I got a PVC long sleeved jumpsuit, a black cone bra for some costume ideas, a black spandex catsuit, and red latex leggings! Can’t wait to create some hot new videos in them for you. So keep your eye out!
About the sales, I recently put up the prices of my new clips by $1, which isn’t much, considering they’ve been the same price since the mid-00s when I started selling clips! So take advantage this weekend and on Cyber Monday of these discounts and binge to your dick’s delight!
On Manyvids I put a whopping 50% off on ALL of my videos there, so go enjoy!
Clips4sale is having a sweet sale on all clips for logged in members, you can sign up for free here.
Customers that Spend up to $49.99 Get 10% Off
Customers that Spend $50 – $99.99 Get 15% Off
Customers that Spend $100+ Get 20% Off
My femdom clipstore: http://clips4sale.com/2746
My fetish clipstore: http://clips4sale.com/16919
All of my vintage clip stores I no longer update have lots of content still, just use the store drop down menu to locate them.
I’m also having a 50% off sale for new and expired subscribers on my Onlyfans! Go join up here and enjoy a month to see what I’ve been up to for only a few bucks! Black Friday Onlyfans Sale
Halloween Flash Sale!
Hey guys! I decided to have a Halloween flash sale special, of 50% off dozens of my clips from Samhain’s past. I put up a ton of various categories on sale, all solo clips: goth girl masturbating, belly inflation, lots of vampire content, succubus tales, and more! Go get them soon because they will vanish into the ethers on November 1st, the Day of the Dead! Just use the drop down menu on the site to look for clips on sale.
Halloween is my favourite time of year, and I’ve been spending it making lots of awesome new content, as I had so many ideas this year that I wanted to complete. Check out my stores for my latest videos, where I play a witch who transforms you into a fleshlight, a carpet, and in another video, shinks you to eat you! Also don’t miss Step-Daddy’s Sexy Kitty Cat, a video in 3 parts, where I play daddy’s girl who gets some drugged candy, that makes her compliant and submissive. Daddy has a special sexy costume for his little girl, but first she needs to be punished and fucked before he cums in her gagged mouth. Want to see more solo videos like this of me as a submissive? Let me know!
Also coming, Queen of Hell roleplay, costume from the first pic above, where I am Lilith, the ruler of Hell, who greets you upon your demise, and inflicts untold torments upon you…ok I’ll tell you a few: female domination, ass worship, rough anal sex/forced bi, and BDSM punishments! More videos will be released also if I end up having the time and energy to film them. Spooky stuff is my favourite to film.
Check for my latest Halloween clips in any of my clip stores.
Also my Onlyfans and my Femdom Onlyfans will have some exclusive teaser content, as well as my amateur photosets as always (like these), and one new update per week, but I spoil my subscribers at holidays and share a bunch of my favourite seasonal full length videos.
It’s My Birthday, and I’ll Cry if You Forget
Hey guys, it is that time of year, the best time of year when we pull out the leather jackets and knee-high boots, the leaves are turning colour, it is Halloween season, and let’s not forget my birthday month! I don’t want to share my exact birthday for safety reasons (I have some creepy stalkers), but I consider the whole month of October MY month and accept gifts and birthday wishes all month long.
Perhaps you don’t know the best way to show your appreciation for me being here, and sharing myself with you? The easiest thing is Amazon gift cards sent to my email (either amazon.com or preferably amazon.ca but please, not amazon.co.uk or any other site as I won’t be able to use those without a hefty import tax fee and huge shipping fees!) are always welcome. My email is firstname.lastname@example.org
I have an amazon Wishlist, of things I want and need, I’ve not been able to treat myself much this last year because I’m trying to catch up on debt that accumulated after a rough couple of years full of emergencies and tragedy. So I appreciate fans who treat me off my Wishlist any time of year, especially lately. Other ideas: tip me on any of my sites that I use, such as Onlyfans, Clips4sale, IWantClips, Manyvids, or Sextpanther. Look for a tip or tribute link or button. It’s really up to you, the cut is about the same. If you don’t want to give the site a % of the gift, a Wishlist present or gift card is the best choice.
I would also love it if you sent me a birthday wish on social media, email, or DM on my Onlyfans, or my new Femdom Onlyfans, and celebrated what I do by subscribing to my site(s) or buying a clip or binging on a bunch. No way to celebrate Sophia like a wank-a-thon 😉
Flash Sale! 25% Off All My Videos Til Sept 1!
Flash sale til Sept 1st at 12am ET, 25% off all of my clips on MV, I want to reach a goal for August and I’ve been on vacation. Come indulge and build up your Sophia Sylvan collection, over 1000 clips and counting! My store items are also 25% off!
25% off ALL My Vids on Manyvids!
Over 1000 clips 25% off! My big sale on MV is meant to draw attention to that clip site, which is my #2, while my #1 has been having tech difficulties. That may be resolving, and the MV sale will end. I’m adding more of my library there as well, often as I can. I want to have my entire clip library, which is thousands of clips over the years, on all my clip sites.
Come take advantage of my sale and get all of my HD downloadable vids at 25% off! This is a steal, so don’t miss it. It could end at any time, but I’ll continue it at least til the end of June.
If you aren’t aware of Manyvids, it’s my second favourite clip store. It has a social media vibe with feeds of your favourite performers you can follow and get free content and updates on, and you can sort the search function to find free videos or the kind of fetish you’re looking for. There are also live cams, membership subscriptions (where you can save a lot on bulk by subscribing for a certain time period–Check out my Membership options), and VIP fan club, which is a more Onlyfans type of feed, I have one of those too, just for posting photos, at a low cost. You can buy panties and other items in our stores, and many other features for you to explore. It is my site of choice for custom video sales too. The messaging system isn’t the best (you need to pay for Premium to contact us), but you can just email me with inquiries.
So be sure to browse my store’s 25% off sale, there’s so many fetishes and kinks waiting for you to explore. I love to get introduced to other fetishists and fans so don’t be shy to reach out.
Custom Video Sale!
*Update: the sale on name use and personalization is ongoing! Subject to certain limitations, in cases of excess name use or personalization that makes editing very time consuming, are not included*
I rarely offer sales on my custom videos, and right now I’m offering one for the month of April. “Say my name”, and other personalization is free for all custom videos and custom mp3s. I can say your name, or another person’s, or include photos or other personal touches at no extra cost. Some limitations apply (if the whole video would not be resellable due to excess personalization). I always edit out personalization from my final releases. Custom videos are kept low-cost compared to the time and energy they take to produce, because of how I can resell them after a few weeks. You can always order an exclusive video if you must have yours private! Many of the videos you see and enjoy in my stores are customs. I love making customs, let’s get personal!
The Demise of Kinkbomb & Clips4sale Category Issues
Just a brief note, guys, to update you about some issues with my clip sites. Please DO NOT purchase my content from Kinkbomb anymore. I’ve been working for them since 2011 but they lost their payment processor a couple of years ago and have been having trouble paying models, and their support is poor, and sketchy. They stopped replying to my requests for payment and owe me several hundred dollars. On the admin page of their website, they say they are offering models 90% payout to “help” with difficulties studios may be experiencing in the pandemic. Yet instead of paying out their performers, they keep 100%. Sounds like a scam to me, very shady and evil. AVOID.
A site I’ve been working with even longer, since 2005 or so, Clips4sale, on the other hand, has great support and has always reliably paid me. I highly recommend them to performers and customers alike. All sites can experience technical difficulties, and there was an issue with many of my clips in recent months (perhaps longer) not showing up in category pages. It seems to be fixed now, but if you ever want to check out what I’m doing, please just go to my clip stores directly.
Clip Highlights: Sneeze Custom and GFE Prostate Play
For my recent clip favourites I have to highlight a custom I did. It was really fun, I got to share my knowledge of breathwork, yoga, and chakras in this intimate POV role-play as your naked yoga instructor with a cold. It’s very realistic, and convincing, and the customer was very happy with the results. Sneezing, coughing, congestion, and nose-blowing all take place and it ends with a hot little masturbation session! As always, if Clips4sale isn’t your preferred clip site, check out my Modelcentro, IWantClips, or Manyvids stores to see if you can find it there. Sneezy Yogini
For my femdom store, I want you to check out the sweet and sensual domination in my new girlfriend experience type clip, Your GF Wants Your Ass. I am dressed casually in a camisole and thong, and it is finally time to play with your ass! I got the perfect toys for it, and I’m so excited to finally share this experience with you. I’ve done it before, so you’re in good hands. I warm you up with a little rimming and fingering, with lots of lube. Then I use my vibrating prostate toy on you before my slimmest, smoothest dildo that will feel so good and make you cum hard. A realistic look at what it takes to do anal for the first time, guaranteed to make you feel like I’m right there with you.
Lonely on New Year’s Eve This Pandemic?
Are you like many spending the holidays alone, or in a more sober or sombre mode than usual? Enjoy some of my festive content.
Cucked for New Year’s Eve, a fantasy where I talk to my friend on the phone and taunt you about our plans to party–a gangbang party without you!
You Are the New Year’s Baby is an audio age regression experience you won’t want to miss! Enjoy my soothing hypnosis and relax into total surrender. Start fresh, be the New Year’s baby.
Slave Resolutions 2016 is just as relevant today. Obey, submit, surrender, repeat. And do this slave homework assignment. Enjoy me as redhead with my glittering outfit and breasts.
In New Year’s Eve Tease, you’re my date and we’re horny before going out, and I give you some JOI and dirty talk and show you how I’m not wearing any panties under my dress. Let’s get each other hot and tease and play all night while we’re out.
Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas whatever floats your boat! I am wishing you the best of this season and a Happy New Year. I would like to thank my fans for your support this year and every year since I started in this industry in 2003! To celebrate I have a few special offers for you, it’s never the same, I like to keep you guessing 😉
My membership website, Switchcraft is up and running, offering deals from 35%-50% off subscriptions and there are full length 2-3x weekly updates going to be happening there! Eventually I will offer group live shows there too when I get enough members. Right now you can enjoy my photosets, full length HD videos of me as a sub, domme, playing with toys and my partners. As the name of the website implies, it is all about my sexuality as a switch!
A new feature to Switchcraft is I’m opening a clip store. Can’t use Manyvids, IWantClips or Clips4sale? I can do my best to upload *new* clips (from 2020 and beyond) only by request to my store and check out what I have to offer right now. My rates are $1 less per clip than on my other clip stores.
I’m also offering 25% off my new seasonal clips on Manyvids until January 2! You can get past year’s holiday clips for 50% off and there are some HOT videos there you won’t want to miss.
That said my clip stores all have my latest holiday porn posted, I hope you’ll check it out! I had fun dressing up and filming some sexy and weird stuff for you. Clips4sale has a carousel of past year’s festive content featured too. Wishing you and your loved ones a safe, healthy, happy holiday season.
Black Friday Sales! MV, OF
I appreciate you, my supportive fans, and to show my thanks I’ve put hundreds of clips on my Manyvids store on sale at 50% off! Go check out what I selected for you, hope you find something you like, but hurry, the sale ends November 30th at midnight!
I’m also offering you 50% off my Onlyfans subscription, it is only $5/month right now! Enjoy the exclusive photos and short exclusive HD videos, the behind the scenes peeks, full length mobile videos and priority messaging with me. Already a deal at $9.99, don’t miss this half price special offer! My Onlyfans has my light fetish and vanilla content, teasing, masturbation, and the most common fetishes like clothing items and such. You can also find many of my amateur girl-girl and guy-girl videos there.
Have you heard about my AVNStars page? It’s very like Onlyfans, except I use it for only my femdom content. You’ll find full length videos, exclusive photos and HD shorts, and get to message with me privately. For extra tips you can get personalized submissive training in the DMs or exchange photos. My AVNStars page is almost exclusively my solo POV femdom, with a focus on the most common kinks, such as body worship, JOI, heels and feet, fetish clothing, strap-on and such. It is also 50% off until Nov 30 at midnight, so don’t sleep on my generosity! The longer subscriptions are also on sale.
Update: I just heard that Clips4sale, my favourite place to sell clips and the most trusted clip site on the web, is having a great sale. The discounts only come out of their cut, not mine so we all win! This applies to all of my clips in all of my clip stores with them! Look on the drop down menu for my other stores. This is my Fetish store, that is regularly updated, and here is my Femdom store, which is as well. The details of the deal are that you save 20% off your first order and 10% off each additional throughout Cyber Weekend, so go pig out on your first order and stock up! <3
Fetishism and Empathy
It’s come to my attention that many of my fans don’t really understand what a fetish is, and where the word comes from, or whether they even have one. So let’s go back to basics and talk about definitions and origins. The origin of the word fetish I first came across in art school when I took a few classes in African Art. A fetish in African Art is a ritualistic sculpture, mask, or other artwork that was used in ceremony. They were also used to bind communities together in African societies.
The fetish is an object imbued with supernatural powers and that adds a sense of magic, mystery, and celebration to a ritual.
African art is known to be extremely vibrant, powerful, dynamic, and creative, and many modern artists such as Picasso liberally stole from it in order to create art that changed the nature of art as we know it, but I digress.
Fetish. [ fet-ish, fee-tish ]noun
- an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.
- any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.
- Psychology. any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
Wikipedia describes a fetish as a manmade object designed to have power over others. Complicating this term is the fact that Africans, of course, did not use create it, it was adopted by Europeans who doubtless derided and misunderstood the use of ritual objects, much as many misunderstood the use of statues and images in Indian art and pagan cultures as idol worship. Capitalism also plays a role in the trade in African art and the alienation of the magical object from its original purpose.
In this way, European cultures came to view a fetish as a fascination with an object that is given undue, even sacrilegious worship . So in the development of psychological awareness of human sexual fetishes, we can see this misapprehension is translated into foot fetishes, shoe fetishes, pantyhose fetishes and so in, indefinitely.
One can perceive a tone of judgement from psychiatrists here as well, a sense of the “perverse” or “inappropriate” where something out of the norm is given undue attention, obsession, or reverence.
Classifying people who have sexual fixations in the same category as a whole culture who is also perceived to be fixated on the wrong thing, an object, instead of a one true God, is misunderstanding both the fetishist and African culture.
Regardless, this is how the term developed, problematic as it may be. A fetish has come to indicate a sexual obsession or fixation without which, the fetish-haver cannot experience satisfaction. There are gradations of fetishism, of course, as with sexual orientation and gender. One fetishist can absolutely not orgasm if he is not fantasizing about a giantess or jerking off to giantess porn. Fetishism is only considered to be a psychological disorder if it causes distress in the fetishist, or according to some, if it interferes with normal functions, but as a fetish performer, I would stress the former. If a person is content with only having sex with vacuum cleaners, who am I to judge? It is similar to a person whose only love in life is to collect knickknacks, is this a disorder? Others may think so but if it brings them joy, more power to them, in my mind.
As Joseph Campbell says, “follow your bliss.”
That’s what I think we should all do in life, shamelessly, as long as it doesn’t harm others. If others feel hurt because you aren’t conforming to their expectations, however, then they aren’t minding their own business and they shouldn’t be a concern. However, I do encourage fetishists to find community and life authentic lives in order to be mentally healthy and have a satisfying and full existence. I encourage you to find a partner or a friend you can share your secret with so you don’t feel so alone. I think many rely on sex workers for this, and I do treasure that I get to share in this very private, secret part of people, it is quite special and also fascinating.
For another fetishist, his fetish is simply one of many interests and although it may be his favourite, he can climax easily with his girlfriend and doesn’t even think of his fetish while in bed with her. For the psychologist however, the true definition of a diagnosable fetish would be someone who cannot enjoy sex without it. In this way, it could become a problem for many people, perhaps standing in the way of an enjoyable relationship.
In my 18 year career as a sex worker, I’ve encountered fetishists of all kinds. There aren’t many fetishes I haven’t heard of or catered to in some form, whether in roleplay, in a porn video or texting session. Not much phases me anymore, to be honest, and often the more bizarre the better, since it’s hard to shock or surprise me now, but of course I have my own limits and preferences.
This brings me to a question I am often asked by my fans. Do I share your fetish for balloons? Am I truly mad about the sneezing fetish? Do I get wet when I tell you to sniff my pantyhose?
My answer may surprise you. I do, actually, at least for a time. Let me introduce you to another word you may have heard of but don’t understand. I am an empath. Now this is a new term of dubious origins (ever watch Star Trek the Next Generation?), but people like me have always existed, we make up a small but not minuscule part of the population. We are those hyper-sensitive people who care so much about others, their pain makes us cry. We care for the downtrodden, animals in need, people in crisis around the world. We feel deeply when we see beauty, and our sensitivity can often bring us pain but also a lot of joy. We feel what others feel, sometimes to our detriment. We are your artists, your musicians, often your nurses or volunteers. We are your kind and selfless relatives and friends. What does this have to do with your fetish, you may ask? Quite a lot.
When I read your custom video request or fantasy, I can get in your head. I can perceive what turns you on about your kink. I can empathize. I can be the fetishist, for that moment that I’m reading your story or performing your video or sexting with you.
I do get wet, usually, and I can see what you like about it. There are some limits of course, when things go beyond the pale of my boundaries and I just can’t get into it, but by and large, this is true.
This has become quite long so I will add my thoughts on what the difference is between a fetish and a kink at a later date.
I’m an actual, real live witch and I love Samhain, or Halloween. I did some fun amateur outdoor photos in a witch hat, fishnets stockings and garter, gauze skirt, corset, satin bra, high heeled booties, with a plague doctor mask. Appropriate, right? My Onlyfans and AVNStars subscribers got the whole photoset and teaser videos sent directly to them. They also receive priority messaging and can send me pics for free and sext with me (for extra tips). I upload at least 2 full length videos on each of these low-cost subscription sites as well per month, along with full, exclusive photosets and teasers. I hope more of you join and especially check out my spooky content!
Race Play, Humiliation and Black Lives Matter
Let me start off by saying that I wholeheartedly support the protests over the murder of George Floyd in the USA, I was born in very white rural upstate New York and I saw a lot of racism. America, and the world, are both in desperate need of radical change and I desperately hope that change comes out of this. I commit to doing my part, and I’m not going to virtue signal by discussing in what ways unless I am asked to.
As many of my fans know, in the past I used to do race play as one of many, many femdom genres in cam shows and clips. It started out in requests from Black men on cam, many years ago. I was tentative at first, it didn’t seem right, but I made my career on exploring dark subjects, the taboo, and doing what was “wrong” and “bad” in many people’s eyes. Hell, sex work is known to be taboo, wrong and bad to many, with sex workers as the devil incarnate. I started to get custom video requests for this too.
You see, humiliation is still one of my kinks, both giving and receiving, and how I understand humiliation is on the mental and emotional level. I see most of the fetishes I engage with operate on the psychological dimension, they are usually repressed memories, fantasies and taboos which make their impression often very early and turn into sexual fixations. Humiliation I find to be a particularly cathartic way to release feelings of shame. Domination is a way to release feelings of disempowerment. Masochism is a way to release fear of pain, and so on. In BDSM we play with the dark side and bring out the Shadow (see the work of psychologist Carl Jung on the Shadow) in a safe space with limits and consent. But yes, I did have a little nagging sense of guilt and shame, asking me, is this right? Is someone going to misunderstand my intentions if they see this? I started to put a disclaimer on my clips that it was roleplay only.
I also understand that just because someone gets turned on by something doesn’t mean they are for it in real life. Someone can be excited by race play but outraged when they encounter racism. As a woman whose oldest kink was rape and gang rape fantasy, in no way shape or form would I wish to be raped except as a roleplay situation with someone(s) I trust and who I’ve discussed my limits with. I don’t think I’m wrong for having that fantasy, or that I need therapy for it, but I’m sure my most prevalent fantasy comes out of a sexist society that oppresses women and rapes women, and makes women fear the force and brutality of men. Fear turns itself into an irrepressible turn-on, for many.
I told myself when I was participating in race play, up to 4 years ago that I was no racist, but I was hopelessly unaware of the deep-reaching extent of my white privilege. I thought that a non-racist roleplaying one for Black people to enjoy the taboo exposed in a safe, consensual container was something that was probably psychologically helpful for my customers. Who else could they share an aspect of their deepest pain with, and roleplay situations of racism and shame with but a white person? It seemed to have to be a white person for them, or else it wouldn’t have the same impact and psychological and erotic charge. How else to engage so potently in a way that is totally safe and private? Our subconscious uses eroticism as a way to force us to deal with repressed emotion and look at it. Nothing like something making your dick impossibly hard or turning your pussy into a river for making you give the subject some attention. Through eroticism and roleplay, we can work through toxic shame, a crippling emotion when not seen, heard and dealt with.
I thought this way for many years. Unfortunately, I only started worrying about four years ago it when I decided I wanted to make my career doing something else, as an artist, and I knew a lot of my videos were being pirated. I feared they would be misunderstood out of context, so I took them down, along with other fetishes I came to have a distaste for, for various reasons.
Then, in the years after, on Twitter, I started to see other performers complain about race play videos and argue that it is wrong to ever engage in, even amongst consensual adults. But the argument that white people should never profit off of racism is what made me realize that I would never do racial humiliation again, it really hit me hard and made it sink in why people opposed it and felt it is a tool of oppression and a racist act.
This week, during the widespread protests about police brutality suffered by Black people, another domme found a race play custom video of mine from several years ago on a minor clip site which I forgot to take down, and screenshotted it alongside a tweet I made in support of Black Lives Matter to, apparently, expose my hypocrisy. I admit total culpability for my past actions and my sloppiness in neglecting to remove a handful of videos. I have since deleted them, and made a public statement on Twitter about my feelings on the subject as well as my mindset at the time that I made them, as a Black sex worker confronted me asking why I thought it was OK at the time to do so.
For the time being, I have left some other non-humiliating, but somewhat objectifying videos which do not use the N-word up in which Black men are discussed, such as cuckold videos and videos talking about BBC. All proceeds for such videos which are sold in future will go to support either bailing out protesters from jail or to Black sex workers in need. Due to having a really traumatic and expensive year on the personal front, I can’t afford to donate all funds I have profited off of race play today, but as soon I can afford to, I will tally up how much I’ve ever made off of race play clips and cam shows and donate it, and more, to one of those causes. It probably isn’t as much as you think.
I want to speak directly to my Black fans who enjoy race play, and are maybe feeling some shame about how many think that it shouldn’t be done, saying you need therapy, and you shouldn’t like what you like, and some anger and sadness that their favourite performers are not doing it anymore. I’m sorry that you’re being made to feel more shame on top of the feelings you already feel about living in a racist society. I’m sorry that an outlet for you has been taken away. I truly am, but I can’t indulge the kink anymore with good conscience with the insight I now have. I’m afraid you’ll have to seek out performers who have not yet been enlightened, or less safe performers who don’t care, and who may actually be racist bigots. I encourage you to seek out the former, not the latter. I encourage you to seek it out in private, perhaps with someone who loves you and cherishes you. I encourage you to roleplay this with POC, even if it doesn’t carry the same erotic charge as doing it with a white person does. I encourage you to talk with other Black people about the subject. I do encourage you to do some reflection, maybe even get therapy if you want to, but know that you are NOT wrong or bad for having such desires. It is simply a reflection of the horrible, cruel society we live in that causes you to have such desires and I understand that you like it because it is wrong and taboo, and that it is a release. Sending you love and big hugs! I feel for you having this come up on social media at a time that is doubtless already extra stressful for you.
I also want to say thank you to the Twitter domme who put me on blast on social media about this, and thank you to the Black people who forgave me for making this kind of content and could feel the genuineness of my apology. I don’t expect or deserve forgiveness and it is appreciated when it is freely given. That really touches my heart. I am grateful for the opportunity to do and be better, and to make amends. As much as I fully enjoy humiliating others and dominating and abusing others, I only ever enjoy it when done in a consensual fashion. This applies to when I am being submissive too. I don’t get off on real abuse and oppression. I’m grateful for the chance to reflect on my white privilege and to become more conscious of race issues and the way even those who don’t think they are being racist, in fact are! I was one of those people, I probably still am in ways I don’t yet see, but I’m open to learning. I’m excited to continue my growing process as I’m committed to doing my part to keep rooting out white privilege and white supremacy at its roots and live a more compassionate life by contributing to making our society more just and kind.
Submissive Training Program and Sub Box
Submissive Training Email Program For a tribute you can join my personalized submissive training program. This works for beginners to experienced subs alike. To begin, tip me $20 to get a copy of my BDSM checklist, fill it out and send it to me. Then for each assignment you wish, according to your limits and interests as well as my own, tribute $25 and you will receive personalized unique task. Join my monthly program, which features emailed tasks per week, daily rituals, and the ability to message me to keep up with your progress. The monthly program requires you to join my AVN stars subscription page and to send a monthly gift according to your budget, as tribute. There are 3 levels depending on your commitment. Weekly, bi-weekly and intensive. Weekly yo get one task, bi-weekly twice a week and intensive 3 emailed tasks per week. The respective costs are $100/mo, $150/mo and $175/mo. You may be required to send proof of your tasks completed if it is within your limits. You will be trained to be a better submissive, and your personal BDSM goals will be considered, but you will be trained according to my whims and amusement. If you have any hopes of serving me in person someday or becoming my slave, online or off, starting here is a must, and this program is highly recommended to those who wish to deepen their connection with me, show their devotion to an experienced dominant woman and explore their submissive nature. It is also ideal for those who for various personal reasons do not wish to practise BDSM in person. Your limits and interests will always be considered but not pandered to. Click the link to pay.
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Giving and Receiving
Hello! Christmas is the time we show appreciation for each other with kindness, and often that comes in way of gift giving. I would like to give my fans something special this year, and that is a free 7 day trial to my subscription website, Onlyfans! It is already a steal at $9.99 a month, with daily updates in form of selfies, behind the scenes photos and videos, full length streaming mobile videos every 4 days, chatting in the DMs and more! You can even sext with me there for extra tips, and I regularly give out 50% off deals on clip sales to my fans there! But for one week only, it will all be free because I appreciate you. My current members will be getting spoiled in other ways. GET YOUR FREE ONE WEEK TRIAL TO MY ONLYFANS. Offer expires Jan 1, 2020, so hurry hurry!
Are you more of a giver than a taker? You can send me something from my Amazon.com Wishlist, I just might get it on time, it’s complicated but I have an address I send to a friend in the States who brings stuff to me once or twice a year. However, I’m always accepting amazon.ca and amazon.com gift cards, send them to firstname.lastname@example.org
If you would like a more personal, sexy gift card, I can always use and adore Secrets in Lace e-gift cards, it’s where I get my pinup lingerie, stockings that fit my curvy legs and I’m dying to try their blouses and pantyhose!
I would also really love e-gift certificates to my favourite latex shop, Polymorphe! You can use the email above for all gift certificates.
Holiday Fetish Porn Blast From the Past
Hi guys! I wanted to share some more cool porn from past years that I created for the holidays. Hope you enjoy! I’m making so much this year, more than ever, and having a lot of fun with it, I will share previews soon 😉
Christmas as a Sex Worker (and an Ex Pat)
I wanted to share a little about what it is like on the holidays as a sex worker, my personal experience as well as what I’ve observed over the 17 years I’ve been one. When I started out, I came to Canada undocumented (I’ve been a citizen now for several years) to be with the dominant man I met on the internet, way back in 2002. I started out my first Christmas travelling back to the USA to see my family, but then I got too scared. Things changed with the government and border crossing got more tight and I was afraid to be unable to get back into the country. I started sex work within months of arriving, since it was the only thing I could really do without papers. I soon found my footing in it though, as I’d always been a sexual person and I loved the attention, and the freedom and flexibility it gave me. And I’m including gifs and links to my Christmas clips of years past for fun and profit 😉
My partner however, had two teenage kids and a wife he was separated from, but he would always go to spend the holidays with them. That meant that I spent Christmas and most holidays alone. I would usually turn on my webcam and sometimes made a lot of money on those days, but it was always a lonely business.
None of my family knows what I do except my mom, who I’m really close with. So family occasions can be awkward for the sex worker, you either have to make up some lie, which I’m really uncomfortable with, or just dodge questions. Luckily my family isn’t very curious, but I know this is tough for many. Not all sex workers are privileged enough to be out to everyone. And if they do, they face stigmatization and estrangement and judgement very often.
Now that my husband is gone (he passed away suddenly this Spring, as I mentioned in my previous post) I’m finding myself making holiday clips and picking out presents for my lovers and my mom, remembering how my husband loved Christmas, despite being Jewish. It was one of the endearing things about him, his childlike love of holidays. He was all the family I had in Canada, and now he’s gone. It is for the best, as he was mentally ill (he had Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a severe form, I only found out too late) and an alcoholic.
I wanted to separate from him for years but he was blind and disabled and totally dependent on me. I used to cook grand English Christmas dinners for him, since he was also an exile, he was English and rarely would or could go visit his family. I won’t be making bread pudding or plum pudding anymore, thank God. But it feels weird still. I’m lucky enough that this year my mother can come visit me on Christmas Day, she works for the Post Office and this is their busiest time of year. I thought I would have to spend the day alone, which would be really depressing on my first Christmas as a widow.
I’ve been preparing lots of Christmas clips, and I wanted to give a shout out to all the sex workers struggling at Christmas. Think of us. We are society’s outcasts, we are looked down upon, stigmatized, persecuted against in business and in so many ways, even targeted for assault and murder. Often we are estranged from our families and this can be the slowest time of year as many of our clients are with their families and spending their disposable income on gifts.
No one does holidays like sex workers. You may have noticed how we are all over every holiday for festive clips and thematic cam shows, with costumes and sets galore, we are brimming with creativity and cheer. But that can conceal a sadder story at times. Don’t forget to think of us. We are humans with real stories, too.
Manyvids 50% Off, Customs 1/3 Off For a Short Time!
Hey guys! I’ve had a lot going on, but I’ve had a 50% off sale on my Manyvids clip store for a few weeks now due to me breaking my leg in March (while having sexytime with my girl submissive–freak domination accident that I talk about in one of my cast videos How I Broke My Ankle)
I can’t film as normal, as my porn studio was also shut down due to major snowfall taking out the electricity and part of the roof. All I’ve been able to film are basic customs and cast clips shot with my iPhone! The quality is pretty good and I’ve been enjoying the down and dirty amateur style and how I can film really quickly using natural light. It’s been good to take a break from shoots that take 4 hours to prep for!
Since I’ve been working less, I’m not making as much as usual, so take advantage of my 50% off Manyvids sale, it will continue until I am free of this cast.
Check out my 50% off Sale at ManyVids. It includes almost all of my videos, except my latest releases and my new guy-girl porn.
And if you have a cast fetish, strike while the iron is hot and get your custom or requests in ASAP! I’m now in a SWLC walking cast and I still have my crutches if you’re into that. It might come off in less than a week. Fingers crossed!
Also, I’m available to film very basic amateur style customs with my iPhone for $10/min inexclusive. Be sure to check out my custom video FAQ here and see if you can get a real deal if your custom is simple and to the point!
Used Lingerie and Fetish Clothing for Sale
Great for sissies or those looking to cheaply stock their fetish wardrobe, have a piece of fetish history when you claim an item from Sophia Sylvan. Package deals with great savings for those who order more than one item! All prices in USD, shipping is $5 in North America. If you need international/priority shipping or have special requests let me know!
Manyvids 50% Off Black Friday Clip Sale!
My 50% off sale for Manyvids was a lot of fun, I enjoyed seeing so many people enjoy my content and those sales emails are the best! Binge away, boys and take advantage of over 300 of my clips being half off. Starting November 23 and ending November 27, this sale starts on Black Friday and continues through Cyber Monday. No promo code required, just visit, browse, buy, and blow!
Check out my Manyvids 50% off Black Friday sale!
While we’re talking about Manyvids, did you know you can subscribe as a member and save a bundle? Over 200 clips available for your enjoyment when you commit to 3 months or more for as little as $18/mo!
And if you’re on a budget check out my MV Crush! I send you pics and short videos to your inbox weekly and it only costs a couple of bucks. Enjoy!
Snapchat Launch and Black Friday 50% Off Sale!
Hey fans! I have a few great deals that I’m excited to share with you for the holidays. From November 23 (Black Friday) through November 27 (Cyber Monday) I will be launching a new feature, promoting my new membership site and offering nearly all of my Manyvids clips at 50% off!
I enjoy social media (maybe a little too much at times) and I just got into Snapchat. It’s a lot of fun and I like that I can share more of my life than on my blog and twitter, but still feel like my privacy is protected, and I can be as X-rated as I want to be! Subscribe to my premium Snap and get regular updates, chat with me, send dick pics and get to know me better! I don’t share this stuff anywhere else. You can screenshot any of my snaps as well.
Join up for as little as $6.24 a month for my special Black Friday/Cyber Monday sale!
October Clip Roundup
October is one of my favourite months of the year, being as it contains both my birthday and Halloween! I adore the crisp, colourful days of autumn and the excitement of dressing up and creepy sexiness of All Hallow’s Eve. To me, this time of year is peak happiness and pleasure! In honour of my favourite month, I went all in and made lots of seasonal clips.
My favourite Halloween clip of the season was probably The Objectifier Becomes the Object. I enjoyed the role-play, my velvet and fishnet outfit with the large black curls, and the return to the transformation fetish role-play. It was fun to get revenge on a man who got too much of a good thing and tried to undo a spell. You objectified a woman by using my love spell to turn her into her toy and reject her? See what it feels like, and become my seat, then my dildo and it ends by me squirting on you and throwing you into the garbage.
The fan favourite was a Halloween clip called Hansel’s Horny, a vore and erotic magic fantasy clip. You are Hansel, a horny sex addict come for a spell and a fuck from the town witch. I decide to restore your innocence, and regress you in age over and over until you are a tasty little baby. These special veneer fangs are truly sinister, coming to sharp little points like shark’s teeth! This video will please belly fetishists and erotic magic lovers as well. This costume and setting really did it for me! I tried hard to make the actual POV eating process genuinely scary and as authentic and intense as I could make it. 12 minutes
The fan favourite clip of the month in my fetish store was Pooting For You, a custom video. Now, let it be known that guys like all kinds of words for sexy actions and bodies, and the fart fetish is no different! This clip contains no actual farting, I talk about it and tease you with my big bubble butt. This custom includes a JOI countdown, me in a lace white thong and making fart faces, and lots of varied poses. I think my ass looked particularly good in this outfit! 5 minutes.
My favourite fetish store October clip was Schoolgirl Crush, a custom video where I play a young girl in kilt and socks who has a massive crush on you, and sends you a masturbation video to try to seduce you. I enjoyed the authentic, shy but slutty flirting and I came twice in this, squirting cream around my favourite toy. 9 minutes
Customs Solo and Lesbian!
Have you ever wanted to order a custom video? Now is a great time! I have a wonderful new camera, a Canon Mark III DSLR if you’re curious, brand new lights, microphone etc., and I’m back in full production swing!
Read my custom video FAQ for your questions, then email me your outline, questions and/or script and then visit my order page when you’re ready to check out.
Kaylaa is back in town, so if you want some wonderful, chemistry-filled girl-girl action, we are here for you! We love BDSM (either of us can play top or bottom or we can double domme or double sub), fetish, lesbian sex, roleplay and more. We’re experienced performers and kinksters and we love getting it on with each other! Couples customs are twice the normal price.
Here’s some photos of Kaylaa, how can you resist?
Hey guys, I upgraded my equipment and I’m now using a Canon Mark III DSLR, which is a professional quality camera, and it can shoot in 1920x1080p. All of my equipment is new and top of the line now, so check out my latest work in my Femdom and Fetish clipstores and enjoy the eye candy 😉
If you want to order something of your own, as always, check out my custom video FAQ for more information then get in touch!
Throwback Thursday: Obsessed with Teacher’s Pussy
I’m planning to make Throwback Thursday a feature on my blog, showing off some of my favourite older clips. This one is from when I still took fan requests and filmed at home a lot, a few years old but still filmed in HD. I have bare legs and am wearing sexy patent leather Oxfords. My “student” is a young boy with an obsession with teacher’s pussy (of course) and gets a taste of teacher’s punishment with some harsh small penis humiliation and JOI, but also some mercy with upskirt views of teacher’s strong legs and heels! 10 minutes long and available here — Obsessed with Teacher’s Pussy
Custom Video FAQ
I’m ready to order, where do I go to pay?
Great! You can go here to my custom video order page on Manyvids.
You can also order customs on IWantClips, or send via a tip on my Onlyfans.
The great thing about ordering from sites like Manyvids or IWantClips is that they use an escrow system. This means that they hold the funds until the custom is delivered, so you don’t have to worry about models running off with the money or you paying and the performer taking months to deliver the custom.
Can I pay another way? Like with a Giftrocket, Google Wallet, Cashapp, Venmo etc?
I’m afraid not, as those forms of payment are against their Terms of Service or are not safe for sex workers. I rarely have customers who have trouble with my sites. Otherwise, you might want to check the balance on your credit card, or consider getting a prepaid credit card for privacy.
Note: I do sometimes accept gift cards in lieu of payment as a last resort. I vastly prefer actual money to use how I see fit, to pay bills, taxes, and so on. But I know that for some, paying via my payment processors just doesn’t work. Email me to arrange something.
How much do they cost? Is there a minimum length required?
My current base rate is $13/min. The minimum length for simple videos is 5 minutes, but. my OF subscribers can tip/tribute for shorter iPhone customs. Complex roleplay scenes (requiring moderate to extensive scripting, memorization of multiple lines, outfit changes, multiple camera angles or sets etc) are 10 minutes minimum and come at a premium varying from 25% extra and up, at my discretion.
Why are customs so expensive? How come after I pay $13/min for my custom, you can resell it in your store for a fraction of the total price?
When you commission a custom, the time and energy involved in producing your fantasy is probably much more than you would guess. It often takes me hours and hours just to set up, plan, execute and edit your custom. The value of my time and expertise is more than minimum wage, and I keep the cost of custom-made content low by resale. That is why exclusive or private customs cost more. Keep in mind that you can buy customs commissioned by others too! If keeping a custom private is important to you, consider paying the higher price for one. Many guys love to share their fantasy with other fetishists and enjoy finding out if it turns out to be popular.
How much does it cost if I want my name used in a non-exclusive video?
*Update* currently this add on is free!
Currently, it is a flat rate of an additional $25 per 10 min or less. This is the same price for including your photos or someone else’s name. The cost reflects the fact that I will have to edit out or perhaps blur the personalization to use the video in my store later.
I would like a custom video private or exclusive only to me. How much is the cost?
Currently exclusive videos are at an additional cost of $200 per clip, no matter the length, and can include your name or other personalization, of course (at no additional cost).
Can you produce content for other sites, for me to share or resale? Can I shoot a video with you?
I don’t allow file sharing of my content, ever. I retain copyright on my material even for private/exclusive customs that will never see the light of day. I may consider producing content for your site or clipstore, but it would be at a premium. You can email me with inquiries, but I only produce my own content or do trades with other models, I don’t meet with clients or producers for hired shoots.
Can you shoot with a guy? Or a girl? How much extra does that cost?
I’m not currently shooting with any men. I sometimes have a female model at my disposal, you can inquire. The cost is about double the normal base rate, or $25/min for most 2 girl shoots, this depends on the model and their normal rates, however.
How long does it take for delivery?
Typically, I deliver my customs in 2 weeks, but at times, my life is busier or I have a longer backlog of customs, and it can take longer, sometimes up to 4 weeks so it is best to inquire before you purchase should this be a concern. You can pay extra (fees described on the site order page) to be bumped to the front of the queue, for 3 day, 1 week or two week delivery guaranteed.
What format are your videos in?
I deliver my videos in mp4 at 1080p (HD) unless otherwise requested.
How are the videos delivered?
By an email download link if you order from me directly or the funds are held in escrow by the clip site, delivered there, and you will only be charged once the video is delivered.
Can I request a certain outfit, makeup, hair, or nail look for my custom?
Absolutely. The best thing is to look at my current videos in my clipstores to see what is available, and if you don’t see what you want, ask me. I’m always happy to tailor my look for your custom if possible. If you require an outfit, prop or look that is going to cost me an unusual amount of time or any money at all, you will have to pay for it in advance however. My hair is currently blonde and I have wigs in a variety of colours.
Can I have you add something to your Amazon wishlist or send you something to wear or use?
I don’t have a public Amazon wishlist, but you can send me an Amazon.com or Amazon.ca (preferred as I’m Canadian) giftcard to buy your requested item. Contact me first though to see if it will work, and to take shipping costs into consideration. I don’t accept sent gifts, sorry. If you send the funds I would be happy to use or wear what you like if we discuss it first!
Why did your cost of customs go up?
I’ve had the same custom video rate for many, many years. Inflation means that everything costs more, and so my bills and costs have gone up just as yours probably have. My production values and expenses have done nothing but go up, so my new rate reflects that. I have new LED lights, a studio to work from with varied sets, a constantly updated wardrobe, a top of the line DSLR camera that shoots crystal clear HD video and a great sound system, as well expertise performing since 2002. With me, you get what you pay for, and then some! I put a lot of effort, time, and care into making your dream come true.
Have another question I didn’t answer here? Feel free to email me at sophiasylvan at gmail dot com!
As someone who’s been in the sex industry for many years, I get certain questions a lot! Don’t be shy to write to me with your questions, but check my FAQ first to save us both some time.
Do you make custom videos?
~Yes I do! Check out my custom video order page or read my custom video FAQ.
Can I meet you? Or do a session?
I don’t meet fans and I don’t do sessions, no exceptions or amount of money will change my mind. Good luck in your search and I hope you continue to enjoy me digitally!
Why don’t you do meetups or sessions?
I value my safety, privacy, and security over money. I feel a lot better doing online sex work only and this has been my preferred medium for 17 years.
What are your limits?
Right now I’m not shooting with others, we are in a pandemic. My limits are no scat, no farting, no animals, no age play that involves discussing minors that aren’t you and me pretending, no puke, no public exposure besides outdoors on my land or in the woods. I’m sure I have other limits, but try me! I’ll talk about almost anything except abusing innocents who are not party to consent.
Do you perform my fetish?
My best suggestion is to browse my clipstores and use the search function or category search to see if I already have. As long as it isn’t within my limits, I just might perform yours for a custom video. Feel free to ask.
Can I get a camshow?
I’m not currently offering live cam shows or phone sessions, but that may change soon, my internet and phone situations aren’t ideal as I live in the country with satellite internet and my phone loses its signal a lot.
Why don’t you do ______ [insert your favourite fetish here] anymore?
I prefer to focus my efforts on fetishes that I enjoy or that I’m curious about. I follow my passions and I’m sure you wouldn’t want me to do it just for the money!