Christmas as a Sex Worker (and an Ex Pat)

I wanted to share a little about what it is like on the holidays as a sex worker, my personal experience as well as what I’ve observed over the 17 years I’ve been one. When I started out, I came to Canada undocumented (I’ve been a citizen now for several years) to be with the dominant man I met on the internet, way back in 2002. I started out my first Christmas travelling back to the USA to see my family, but then I got too scared. Things changed with the government and border crossing got more tight and I was afraid to be unable to get back into the country. I started sex work within months of arriving, since it was the only thing I could really do without papers. I soon found my footing in it though, as I’d always been a sexual person and I loved the attention, and the freedom and flexibility it gave me. And I’m including gifs and links to my Christmas clips of years past for fun and profit πŸ˜‰

Jingle Balls

My partner however, had two teenage kids and a wife he was separated from, but he would always go to spend the holidays with them. That meant that I spent Christmas and most holidays alone. I would usually turn on my webcam and sometimes made a lot of money on those days, but it was always a lonely business.

A Husband’s Christmas Punishment

None of my family knows what I do except my mom, who I’m really close with. So family occasions can be awkward for the sex worker, you either have to make up some lie, which I’m really uncomfortable with, or just dodge questions. Luckily my family isn’t very curious, but I know this is tough for many. Not all sex workers are privileged enough to be out to everyone. And if they do, they face stigmatization and estrangement and judgement very often.

The Christmas Executrix

Now that my husband is gone (he passed away suddenly this Spring, as I mentioned in my previous post) I’m finding myself making holiday clips and picking out presents for my lovers and my mom, remembering how my husband loved Christmas, despite being Jewish. It was one of the endearing things about him, his childlike love of holidays. He was all the family I had in Canada, and now he’s gone. It is for the best, as he was mentally ill (he had Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a severe form, I only found out too late) and an alcoholic.

Piece of Garbage Baby

I wanted to separate from him for years but he was blind and disabled and totally dependent on me. I used to cook grand English Christmas dinners for him, since he was also an exile, he was English and rarely would or could go visit his family. I won’t be making bread pudding or plum pudding anymore, thank God. But it feels weird still. I’m lucky enough that this year my mother can come visit me on Christmas Day, she works for the Post Office and this is their busiest time of year. I thought I would have to spend the day alone, which would be really depressing on my first Christmas as a widow.

Deck Your Balls

I’ve been preparing lots of Christmas clips, and I wanted to give a shout out to all the sex workers struggling at Christmas. Think of us. We are society’s outcasts, we are looked down upon, stigmatized, persecuted against in business and in so many ways, even targeted for assault and murder. Often we are estranged from our families and this can be the slowest time of year as many of our clients are with their families and spending their disposable income on gifts.

Stuffed for Mom

No one does holidays like sex workers. You may have noticed how we are all over every holiday for festive clips and thematic cam shows, with costumes and sets galore, we are brimming with creativity and cheer. But that can conceal a sadder story at times. Don’t forget to think of us. We are humans with real stories, too.

Customs Temporarily $10/min!

I know some of you guys struggled with my rate increase to $15/min for my solo vids, and now is your chance to get one at my old rate! The reason being is that I’ve had an extraordinarily tough year in my personal life, with multiple catastrophes, and because of that I’ve been unable to deliver customs reliably. I’m making very good content, better than I have in years, but I need time and understanding. When I increased my rate to $15/min to cover inflation, cost of living increases and my improved equipment and skills, I could not predict that life would make it that I sometimes took 2 months to deliver a custom order. Photos in this post recent from customs I’ve done this year.

I’m doing better now, but things have been so up and down this year that I don’t want to promise that I can deliver in 2 weeks or less, which has always been my goal for most customs. This rate is with the understanding that it could take 2 weeks or less, or it could take several weeks to receive your clip. I won’t be taking rush orders either.

For those who are curious and haven’t been following the saga on twitter, I had many setbacks in recent years, some good and many bad. I was working on being a professional artist, and I took a lot of time off sex work while I have been doing that. This is still a goal of mine, but it can’t be my primary focus, right now, I have to pay my bills.

Earlier this year my grandmother, who raised me in her house like her own, died after a brief illness and sudden dementia. Then I broke my leg in a sex accident with my new sub Hecate (yes really), and excessive snowfall collapsed part of my porn studio, and the cops and local authorities got involved. It was a debacle. I’ve been fighting with insurance companies and that still isn’t over but it is looking optimistic.

And last but surely not least, my partner of 17 years suddenly died in front of me in May. We had many troubles and were considering divorce, but he was still family to me, and the event was deeply traumatic. I’ve been healing and taking care of myself, but I have moderate PTSD, leaving me with chronic anxiety and fits of depression where I can’t work for weeks at a time.

I would love to take your orders, however, since I’m back to work full time now and my creativity is burgeoning! My equipment is top notch and I’ve been filming at home with my rooms freshly painted and redecorated as I’ve been nesting at home and recovering.

This new rate does not apply to my girl-girl or guy-girl customs, as those are delivered within a month guaranteed.

Take advantage of this offer now, as I have been feeling better, but I want to feel better for 2 months+ before I raise my rates back up to $15/min and am assured I can deliver customs in a timely fashion. In all likelihood you will get yours in 2-3 weeks, but I can’t promise.

To order, read my custom video FAQ, where you can find payment options.

Halloween Girl-Girl and Guy-Girl Porn!

My favourite time of year is a great time for me to feature my favourite kind of porn on this blog right? I love making creative supernatural spooky porn and I hope you enjoy the costumes and role-plays of these clips. I made solo stuff, girl-girl porn as well as guy-girl porn with both of my lovers! This year was truly unique as I have two lovers who are brand new to porn but eager and willing to perform with me. Get in touch after reading my custom video FAQ if you would like to commission a production with either Wolf or Hecate.

Feral Kitty Training 1

I had so much fun being a feral kitty cat in this pet play session with Wolf. Watch me be a wild kitty who doesn’t want to be pet under her tail, and he teaches her who the Master is. No words for me just hisses, meows, howls and purrs as he breaks me and makes me a submissive pussy cat. Lots of bondage, super rough sex and a creampie finish!

Feral Kitty Training 2

It was so fun to paint myself green, put on a blue wig and a silver leotard and thigh high boots and dig out my flashing headband to turn myself into a slutty alien. Sci-fi loving Wolf enjoyed tormenting me with forced orgasms as the vengeful alien hunter, and fucking my throat with the new ring gag we’ve been getting a lot of private use out of.

Enjoy my angry, fearful thrashing and struggling as I try to escape, my total helplessness as he forces me to cum twice, my gagged screams of pleasure and pain and the mouthful of cock that I choke on in His Alien Slut 1. Part 2 coming out on Halloween so check my store for that!

The Vampire’s Kiss 1

Vampires are always a classic at Halloween, and I love playing the predatory creature, especially when I have succulent new prey. Hecate, my sub, plays an innocent girl who has fallen into my clutches and become my blood slave and sex slave. In order to stay alive, she must do everything I say. I bend her over and use her ass and pussy without mercy, before feasting on her pussy and her human blood.

The Vampire’s Kiss 2

Haunting Porn from Year’s Past

I wanted to share with you some of my vintage Halloween porn from past years, still as stroke-worthy as ever!

Check out POV Vampire Transformation, where I play your sexy redhead wife, becoming a vampire then eating you. Lots of satin and silk in this clip, from my robe to my silk slip to the red satin sheets.

The Witch’s Curse will have you clutching your junk as I punish you for hitting on me when I’m trying to help you by shrinking your manhood and tell you that you must serve 1000 pussies with your mouth only before the curse will be lifted, starting with mine!

My first succubus clip will make you dream of me coming to visit you as a demoness to steal your soul…and your cum. Topless POV dick riding included πŸ˜‰ Also get a load of me in this sexy vintage lingerie and stockings and Betty Paige wig!

Dig the scary alien action in It Came From Her Belly as I eat some bad poutine and something horrible grows in my belly! Includes scary belly movements, sweater fetish, getting sick and a horrible creature I made out of clay emerges at the end. For belly fetishists. A custom video production. Curious about them? Read my custom video FAQ!

I love customs for the collaborative creativity they unleash! Drunk Demonic Princess in Hell has me in latex, chugging from an extra large bottle of vodka, as the voice of my dark lord commands me to drink until I die from alcohol poisoning.

This is another custom, where I am a terrible tease to my neighbour who is a voodoo master. He decides to punish me for my teasing exhibitionism by using his magic to tie me up, tape gag me, and caress my body with his ghost hands. Then he animates my stuffed bear to maul my pussy relentlessly! See Voodoo Torment

Eat of His Flesh, Drink of His Blood is a very popular demonic possession solo video where I’m a bad nun in a PVC habit and the devil possesses me and makes me masturbate. A classic!

Solo Spooky Sluttiness

I made a few sexy spooky solo clips this year for Halloween, heck I make them all year round but I tend to put out the most effort this time of year when I really get in the festive spirit.

Check out The Submissive Spell, where I play your friend the witch who pretends to help you with your problem with bossy domineering women via herbal potion and a tarot reading, but instead I use my powers to enslave you to my cock forever.

You really shouldn’t miss The Rakshasi 1 and The Rakshasi 2, for a succubus-style fantasy where I am a vengeful goddess-demon come to take your soul, and your cum.

I had a lot of fun with Costumed Nylon Encasement where I covered my body with tight black hose, then added slutty bimbo attire such as a short dress, PVC corset, high heels and a long red wig. Then I put a stocking on a dildo and fucked myself senseless with it! The sensations of the nylon all over and inside were incredible. I was super horny in this two part clip, the second one is yet to be released so check back to my store tomorrow.

Since I was raised religious and had to suffer through sexual shame of Christianity and Church school for many years, I really love the blasphemy kink. I so enjoyed “playing” the goth witch desecrating the bible and the cross in this clip. Have you ever seen a slut fuck her ass with a genuine Jerusalem wood cross, deep inside? Or wipe a used buttplug on the bible’s pages? Now is your chance, with Assfucked by Jesus.

Birthday Girl, Witch Porn & Welcome My Submissive, Hecate

Hey guys, I’m planning to start blogging on here regularly, I always have a lot to say and share, but usually Twitter is my go-to for that. However, that’s far from ideal these days with the crackdown on porn and sex work on the internet and a lot of my content gets lost. Here I’m totally in control though, and I can post whatever I want!

Check out The Rashaski 1 and The Rakshasi 2 for a really hot vampire fantasy POV clip, featuring vampire fetish, femdom POV, body worship, and executrix themes.

October is my favourite time of year, partly because my birthday is October 18, and also because I love costumes, and I adore Halloween. I always love shooting role-play and spooky porn, and I really go all out. By the way, if you would like to send me a belated birthday gift, you can send an amazon gift card to Sophiasylvan@gmail.com or check out my amazon.ca or amazon.com wish lists. You can also email me to get my mailing address so you can send me anything your heart desires.

Hecate and Sophia in The Sacrifice 1

Some more news is that I’ve had a little French submissive secret under wraps for a while now. I met Hecate on Tinder last year and we’ve been playing privately together for several months. She is brand new to porn and working on her own unique artistic clipstore, and we’ve been filming some awesome stuff together. Be sure to check out The Sacrifice 1 and The Sacrifice 2 for her very first porno, where we play two witches, High Priestess and initiate, who perform a painful, sensual sex ritual in order to work their magic. Spoiler alert: we are witches and we really do this kind of thing πŸ˜‰

Sophia and Hecate in The Sacrifice 2

Hecate has an adorable French accent, she’s very new to BDSM and very curious to try everything. She’s very submissive, slutty and willing, and we are available for customs. Check out my custom video FAQ for details.

Sophia in Costumed Nylon Encasement 1

And don’t forget to check out my new OnlyFans page, it is the only place I currently have a membership site, and I update a couple of times a week, exclusive content from my personal sex life, behind the scenes pics and vids, selfies, and full length fetish and kink clips for mobile phones, and it is only $10/ month! You can also chat with me and send pics via their direct message system. It’s the greatest deal on a membership site I’ve ever offered.

I’m Free1

My cast is off my leg and I’m free to film, my studio is still damaged and waiting on contractors and clearance from the insurance company, but I’m able to film at home. The sale on Manyvids and for simple customs is still on offer until I’m in my full, normal production mode, which I hope to be this week. So get your orders in ASAP and refer to my last post for my sales links. Like my new pink Calvin Klein bra? I have the matching panties, new purchase. Super comfy and they look great on me1

Manyvids 50% Off, Customs 1/3 Off For a Short Time!

Hey guys! I’ve had a lot going on, but I’ve had a 50% off sale on my Manyvids clip store for a few weeks now due to me breaking my leg in March (while having sexytime with my girl submissive–freak domination accident that I talk about in one of my cast videos How I Broke My Ankle)

I can’t film as normal, as my porn studio was also shut down due to major snowfall taking out the electricity and part of the roof. All I’ve been able to film are basic customs and cast clips shot with my iPhone! The quality is pretty good and I’ve been enjoying the down and dirty amateur style and how I can film really quickly using natural light. It’s been good to take a break from shoots that take 4 hours to prep for!

Since I’ve been working less, I’m not making as much as usual, so take advantage of my 50% off Manyvids sale, it will continue until I am free of this cast.

Check out my 50% off Sale at ManyVids. It includes almost all of my videos, except my latest releases and my new guy-girl porn.

And if you have a cast fetish, strike while the iron is hot and get your custom or requests in ASAP! I’m now in a SWLC walking cast and I still have my crutches if you’re into that. It might come off in less than a week. Fingers crossed!

Also, I’m available to film very basic amateur style customs with my iPhone for $10/min inexclusive. Be sure to check out my custom video FAQ here and see if you can get a real deal if your custom is simple and to the point!

Custom Video FAQ

Sophia

Used Lingerie and Fetish Clothing for Sale

Great for sissies or those looking to cheaply stock their fetish wardrobe, have a piece of fetish history when you claim an item from Sophia Sylvan. Package deals with great savings for those who order more than one item! All prices in USD, shipping is $5 in North America. If you need international/priority shipping or have special requests let me know!

Size medium PVC miniskirt with front laces from Northbound, moderately used. $40
Sleeveless PVC and spandex top. Well used. $20
Size small purple kilt, lightly used, $30
Size medium silver spandex leggings, well-used, $20
Size medium stretchy pencil skirt, moderately used, $30
One size slutty fishnet back dress, $20
36B red bra, very lightly used, $20
Fishnet stockings, open crotch, well-used, $10
36B white bra, very lightly used, $20



Announcing Upcoming Guy-Girl Videos with Wolf Greyfurson!

If you follow me on Twitter, you may have heard a little about the awesome sex I’ve been having with my tall, sexy, dominant boyfriend, now known as Wolf Greyfurson. We decided to try out filming together and this weekend the first of our clips will be released in my clip stores this weekend! Be sure to look in my fetish clips4sale store Sophia Sylvan Fetish as it will be released there first, but also on my other clip sites to follow. Here are some screenshots from our recent efforts!

You’ll enjoy seeing me getting fucked the way I love, rough and hard. I cum so much, you have never seen me like this! Watch me take his dick like a champ and love it, and to record all the orgasms I have with him in a night, we would have to record hours of video…so just enjoy the glimpses you get πŸ˜‰ Femsub sex, bondage, des-throat, anal, is my absolute fave, so if you’re a Dom, love female submissives, or you’re a submissive beta or cuck, I’m sure you’ll love watching me get and give a maximum amount of pleasure in our kinky adventures. We’re available for select custom videos too, just keep in mind for an additional performer the price is usually double. Contact me with your inquiries. sophiasylan at gmail dot com.